Выбор партнёров для танца

[kinesika]

В продолжение - рекомендации для партнеров:
"We have to remember that most ladies who are true salseras come to these clubs and socials to dance, not to just sit or stand around and be cranky or depressed. We're not talking here about the generic ol' club scene here, or a "meet market". We're talking about the mambo scene. So when we're hesitating and timid about asking someone to dance, we need to remember that the majority of these ladies really do want to dance....that's why they came. So just take action, fellas. And if the lady says "No", well....we've been told "No" many times before and we're still breathing. And there are definitely 10 other ladies right nearby who would probably love to say "Yes". And if a lady says "No", and then 30 seconds later she's dancing with another guy, well....what can you do? We all have a right to be choosy, and so does she. But it doesn't mean you're a jerk, or that you were wrong to have asked her to dance. Just get over it, move on, and ask someone else. Of course, there's an important matter of courtesy and respect to remember here: if a woman is standing or dancing most of the time with a certain man, which means they might be dating, good etiquette and respect requires that you ask the man if he would mind your asking the lady for a dance."